Everything here is a little bit harder.
– a Rabbit
From each community I have visited, something wonderful’s stuck in my mind. In Earthaven, daffodils blooming at every fork in the road and the lovely floor mosaic in the community house. At Possibility Alliance, the clear pond with its happy flock of ducks and geese and cat-tails all around, and funky cob outdoor kitchen. At Dancing Rabbit, the enormity and clarity of the night sky, and the endless buckets of humanure that travel from the community house to the composting ground (a good good thing!
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I spent two weeks last month at the Dancing Rabbit Ecovillage, which finds itself on a large old farm far from just about anywhere, in the area known as NEMO (North Eastern Missouri). The land itself is mostly rolling pasture, with some trees and woods along the creeks and washes. Walking the land is easy on the paths mown in the tall grass and weeds. Next door is the Red Earth Farms, an offshoot of DR. And three miles down the road is another small, older community, Sandhill.
The Rabbits run a very well organized visitors program. The six of us newbies would meet every day for a check-in, and to attend some workshop or work party. The group itself was multifarious: an LA man working in the film industry, retooling himself as an alternative builder, wanting out. A woman touring U.S. communities, freshly come from a large Hare Krishna ashram/cow sanctuary in West Virginia where she had been learning farming. A Canadian with Old Colony (very old fashioned) Mennonite background who knitted her way through our DR days. A musician from North Carolina who used to run a nightclub, realized that he had thrown out one drunk too many in his life, and time had come for a radical turnaround. And an intrepid man from Boston looking to start an ecovillage in New England came to explore both DR and Possibility Alliance.
Our workshops covered the history of DR and took us on several tours of the land, the main community kitchen and its rules, and the houses. We learned about consensus, permaculture, land use planning for DR’s future expansion, a bit about how DR gets things done, the various coops, and about the alternative building and energy at DR. DR builders are moving somewhat away from natural building and into green building which goes up faster and doesn’t grow mold. They use propane and county water, are on the grid for electricity, and produce enough from wind turbines and solar panels to sell back to the grid. One rather notable workshop dealt with “inner sustainability” and learning to navigate relationships and conflict at DR. We discussed various techniques for inner work, from Coherence Counseling to Naka Ima/Heart of Now and Zegg Forums, and co-counseling was demonstrated.
One night we were treated to a Q & A session where many Rabbits came to offer answers to our questions; they all stress that each person’s answer is partial and particular, and we were always encouraged to gather a number of points of view. We participated in the WIP (“week in preview”) session on Sunday where announcements are made for the coming week, people schedule car trips, and in general everyone coordinates their activities as needed. We also hauled dirt to someone’s future green roof, learned to make joinery pegs the old fashioned way on a shaving horse, planted garlic, and some people helped with a new round house going up made of pallets, clay-straw, cob, and natural plasters. We were also treated to delightful tours of the neighbor eco-communities.
A particularly interesting workshop was on DR’s internal currency. It’s called ELMs, is entirely computerized, practical, and unique, and run by two volunteers. Converting into dollars 1:1, it is widely used, and the community pays those who work on its behalf in ELMs. About $40,000 worth changes hands every month, increasing fast. How do people make a living in DR? Well, there are those who live off their trust funds or pensions, a few run computer businesses, and others go off-farm for seasonal jobs (for example, a cruise ship job, sheep farm job, soil testing for area farmers, and the like). The community does provide some limited flow of money to those who live there and decide to provide child care or building and maintenance services. DR itself offers several part-time accounting and high-level coordination jobs.
The car coop serves this community of 70+ with three biodiesel cars. On one hand, this is part of the glue that helps the community stick together. It is however fairly expensive to pay per mile into the coop, and some people hang onto their own cars so they can work off-farm or visit relatives. This is creating considerable tension at the moment, and will be the subject of a large (and contentious) community meeting this month. I am expecting that the strict standard will be somewhat relaxed, but at the same time, it presents a difficult issue to the Rabbits because the commitment to shared biodiesel cars is one of the founding principles of DR. The tiny town of Rutledge is 3 miles away and people do bicycle or walk there, and to the organic dairy nearby.
One of the amazing things about DR is the richness of the cultural life there. I often wondered… how come the typical small town in America feels so dead, with very little going on, esp. for young people, whereas DR is just brimming with events and gatherings? Every night, there was something of interest: potlucks, a concert, support groups, self-growth workshops, men’s and women’s groups, singing and healing circles, yoga, parties, movie nights… or simply informal gatherings in the community house to share stories or to make music. A true cultural oasis.
The food, on the other hand, was often dreadful. We circulated among the various community kitchens which are run as coops into which people pay a monthly fee, and share the chores of cooking and keeping the place stocked and modestly clean. Veganism seems to be the prevalent ethos even though most of the people there are not vegan. I guess it’s cheap to feed people that way. To give you the flavor of it, one day for lunch we got some tasteless split peas with carrots, millet, and popcorn. Ugh. There were meals that were tasty, but they were more of an exception to the rule, and when Thursdays came, many of us converged on the Mercantile to wolf down handmade pizza. (The Mercantile is a straw-bale B&B inn and a shop/bar.) The community kitchens range from modern kitchens all the way to outdoor open sheds where cooking is done on hand-crafted rocket stoves.
Most of the current settlers at DR are quite young, and the turnover is considerable. Many people go for the experience, not to settle there. This may shift as DR keeps on growing. The community is really one big laboratory for building methods, community design, relationships, co-governance, and now, finally, gearing up for restorative agriculture. I attended the ag committee meeting, and it turns out that most of the early settlers came here for the natural building opportunity (no zoning laws). The ag lands have lain fallow for 15 years, harvesting a government subsidy that helped DR pay off its land mortgage. Now 19 acres have been removed from that program, and the ag committee is busy setting up some basic guidelines for farming. The land itself is very degraded: I was told that much of the topsoil blew away in the 30s, followed by bad farming practices, and now there is only about an inch of topsoil overlying clay. People who garden have had to resort to importing soil from elsewhere for their raised beds. Given the vegan ethos of the community, regeneration of soil via rotational grazing is regarded with suspicion, but a go-ahead has been given for a small herd of goats and sheep, beginning next year.
Well. I am just bursting with more stories from the stay, and the post is getting lengthy. I think I will tell you two more things, and then tuck in. I have enough memories and reflections for another post or two! The thing that completely caught me off guard and unprepared was this: DR is inhabited mainly by extroverts who have taken over. It was hard for me to bear, all the compulsive socializing, the fast talking without pauses, the loudness and ruckus attending gatherings, the obligatory hand-holding circles, the many meetings, and the lack of sociable silence. The extroverts are aware their ways are hard for introverts to live with — that is, intellectually, they are aware. Behavior-wise, they seem oblivious. The extrovert culture has at its roots an assumption — a sense of entitlement, even — that introverts adapt and assimilate. In the sense that the outside culture is driven by extrovert values and needs, the Rabbits have brought Babylon in with them (says this much put-upon grumpy introvert).
I did not camp out as my mateys did, but rented one of the more notable structures at DR; a tiny cob house named Gobcobatron, built as a spiral and very lovely and enjoyable for a brief stay (see its pic below). High on charm, it is also mostly unlivable, having no insulation in the walls or the roof. One afternoon when I dozed off without covering myself, I woke up chilled to the bone even though it was warmish outside: the massive earthen walls just suck the heat out of the living body. Evenings, I put a little stove to good use. The house was a quiet and calming retreat for me from all the bustle of the community. Its owners have learned some important lessons and are now living in a partially finished straw-bale house built on stilts to insulate it from the damp ground.
I am very grateful for everything these brave pioneers so whole-heartedly and generously shared with us visitors. All hail the hard-working, merry Dancing Rabbits!

November 11, 2012 at 1:18 am
Very nice post, but please add more photos!!!
Sorry for the food! I’m myself fond of meat, but at my permaculture course we had pure vegan food, and it was delicious! As the course had only professional chefs with an extremely knowledge of food and wild vegetables and so on. Just can’t understand how they could thrill out so many tasteful meals, and after two weeks I still not missed meat. Amazing! Maybe DR should have professional chefs running their kitchen as well?
Why did their natural homes have mould? Did they not stick to the general roole that the inner wall shall be 10 times more vapour dense than the outer wall?
Wery nice cabin of yours, a splendid example of The Deep Truth of the Sheltering Roof: http://permaculturenews.org/2012/05/28/the-deep-truth-of-a-sheltering-roof/
Hope all roofs of DR are of the same timeless quality!
November 11, 2012 at 8:20 am
Lovely article! I’m interested in the references to the cultural life at DR… do they have television? internet access?.. sound systems?
November 11, 2012 at 9:12 am
We did have a good vegan meal or two. No, they don’t have chefs, they just wing it. I’ll see about more pics.
Their cob houses developed mold because they did not have a barrier between the ground and the walls, so the wicking process brought in moisture, and the other reasons is, cob houses are cool in the summer, and in this very humid climate, the condensation inside can be a real problem. You don’t want a house where the ceiling drips on ya. Last I heard, they were debating dehumidifiers and A/C units.
There are at least two more green roofs being built as we speak. One of them will be a shallow-pitch gardening roof. But most roofs there are metal, for the durability in storms. They get pretty bad wind storms at times.
November 11, 2012 at 9:18 am
They have internet access in the common house. And people use wifi. Cell phones don’t work very well there, you have to go to a certain area and hope for a signal. Television…. well, when I got there, and was walking at night, I saw a huge TV screen being in use at the Mercantile. So I asked about it, and they said they don’t specifically prohibit TVs, but that the Mercantile only shows movies, and once in a while streaming video. Nobody else has it… in the Casa, their culture house, they show movies on a projection screen. If people want to watch a vid they usually just watch it on their computer. I think there is a sound system in the Casa; that’s where concerts and many of the events take place. The Casa is a green building, not a natural one. It’s influencing what people build now… small green buildings on stilts.
la casa de cultura
November 11, 2012 at 9:29 am
Oh, now I see the problem. As you know moisture always move from the warm side to the cold side of the wall, this mean when the house is colder inside than outside the humidity will be transported inward. Maybe they should add a layer on the outside making it more locked? But then they might get the opposite problem in wintertime. It’s easier here as we have to heat our houses all the year round.
November 11, 2012 at 9:36 am
Nb! Please upload your pictures from the eco-villages you visit to Wikimedia Commons! I’ve tried to find pictures there sometimes to illustrate some articles of mine, but there are almost no good photos of eco-villages there.
November 11, 2012 at 9:41 am
Øyvind, they do insulate from the ground with earth bags now, and membranes. But the condensation remains a problem. That’s why building on stilts and having lots of ventilation may be the most suitable thing for that climate.
As for the little cob house, people have debated if adding an insulating layer on the outside would help. Right now, wasps build little tunnels into the walls on the warm side of the building… endearing. But shows the walls are not really sealed at all.
November 11, 2012 at 9:58 am
Google images has lots though.
And here is a link to Milkweed Mercantile.
http://www.milkweedmercantile.com/
November 11, 2012 at 10:56 am
I checked the link, but as I expected all rights are reserved. It’s the same problems on Google Images. Of course I can use them on my blog, but not when sending my article to a larger website. There I must add fully legal photos. That’s the point with Wikimedia Commons.
November 11, 2012 at 11:14 am
Yeah. I just steal them.
I will upload what I have though, like you say.
November 11, 2012 at 12:21 pm
Thanks!
November 11, 2012 at 3:04 pm
cob walls….
I live on Devon UK, where cob houses with thatched roofs were the standard method of building houses for centuries. There may be tens of thousands of cob houses still in use in Devon. My own house has mostly stone walls but the purlins are resting on cob for some reason and the cider barn in the farm where I work has mixed cob and stone walls. The saying here is a cob house needs ‘good hat and boots’ – in other words you mustn’t let water get in from top or bottom. The top will be protected by thatch with a generous overhang. The bottom will be built on a low wall – preferably with a damp-proof course. I wouldn’t consider building in cob here without a nicely insulated floor of some sort. Cob houses here usually have lime rendering on the walls, inside and out. This is said to be breathable – i.e. allows the slow passage of moisture. These materials are also flexible to a certain extent. We don’t have the extremely humid weather conditions that you have but nowadays we release a lot of moisture into our house through cooking and bathing. This would probably cause me problems except that I tend to live with doors and windows open or heat the house with wood, which implies an airflow that can disperse moisture.
The lesson is that you can’t learn the best building techniques from books and that what works perfectly in one environment may fail in another.
November 11, 2012 at 4:45 pm
Yup, for sure. They are using some lime plasters now, and they said they found out that if you want to use lime, you can’t just do the outer layer. Somehow it will warp the other layers — they said they mix a bit of lime in the first layer and then increase it gradually for the other layers. Or vice versa?
And in the little cob house, they learned the lesson of the feet the hard way… they had to rip out and replace the whole floor.
The other problem with cob there is that it invariably cracks. Have you seen that in Devon as well?
November 11, 2012 at 11:04 pm
So when they switched from “natural” to “green” building, what did they switch to? Or did they just get smarter, as the discussion above suggests? (I will be building a community in southern Minnesota soon. Zen and permaculture)
November 12, 2012 at 9:09 am
No, the “green buildings” are not natural (meaning stuff found on site, or nearby, or recycled). They look more conventional and sleek. They adhere to a green standard, looking for purchased materials that are more sustainable than others. For example, their new community house will have fancy composting toilets that go into the basement and have large containers with automatic rotation, instead of humanure buckets. Or instead of scrounging for windows all over the place, you buy the windows for a uniform look, but look for the companies that do the best job, environmentally. Or use old jeans for insulation. Square corners. Drywall (though I did not ask if the dry wall is hemp or some other niftier material.) That sort of thing.
I forgot to mention another disadvantage of cob… it’s hard to keep things clean. There is always dust and grime around from the earthy walls…
November 12, 2012 at 10:20 am
I’ve never been a big fan about intentional communities. the singer/songwriter Greg Brown kind of said it in an intro to his song “Laughing River” on his Live One CD: intentional communities are “a bunch of baloney, you gotta need each other’.
Not to be snarky, but in my limited experience I’ve always found them to be more theory than practice. In order to create a real community, people need to get outside their own lives and express interest in others. I just haven’t experienced that in my own rural community in northern VT. Most of my neighbors never inquire about my wife and I, even in cases where we know they know we have a lot going on. But they feel free to go on and on about what they are doing. They are free to take, but don’t really give. Example: we once gave some neighbors 400 bales of hay for their 2 horses – for free. When they ran out in the spring, we got a call, “Got any hay?” That’s neither neighborliness or community.
I know I’m no perfect neighbor – sometimes I suspect that my wife and I are seen as distant. We do pretty much just go about doing our thing on our farm. We still do things with some neighbors, but I can’t shake the feeling that there isn’t full freely given reciprocity.
I think too many people have forgotten what it is to truly need each other. SO long as we have fossil fuel slaves, I’m not sure we will remember, either. Plus, the messages from ‘Mother Culture’ aren’t really geared to that anymore – we are just bombarded with messages emphasizing the self.
November 12, 2012 at 11:51 am
Well, there are three things that are different at DR. First of all, there is a pretty pervasive sense that “we don’t need to explain to each other what’s wrong with the outside culture.” Which is a real relief. There is a sense of shared values that is missing in many places nowadays. And people are quite interested in what others are doing, and in skill sharing.
Second, people try very hard to be… well, emotionally mature. Lots of emphasis on personal growth, and how to get along. So babbling on and on about yourself and not giving others the care and attention they need would not endear anyone to the community, in the long run. Eventually, the babbler would be confronted, and maybe even pushed into conflict mediation.
And third, people need each other, not only to be able to care for the shared land, but also more immediately, to share the few cars among themselves fairly. So that is a fair amount of glue, and keeps DR attractive to those who want to learn new ways of living.
I share your frustration. I live in a community where people live close by and are fairly neighborly. But I have nothing in common with most of my neighbors; some relationships I have abandoned for poor fit, and others, well, there is no motivation to even reach out. I think certain level of likemindedness and shared values is essential for true neighborliness to emerge, no?
November 12, 2012 at 2:22 pm
more cob walls…
you wouldn’t notice most cob walls here because they are lime rendered. Maybe DR are not using lime correctly – it’s not just a matter of mixing up a render with dry lime. Link: http://www.mikewye.co.uk/mikeprices.htm
Of course the biggest mistake you can make with cob is to try to render with an inflexible portland cement mix – bound to shear at the interface. I wouldn’t say that a rendered cob wall is dusty – sometimes some of the coloured washes are a bit powdery.
Don’t see cracks in walls here generally – maybe too much water in the mix? or varying amounts of water in mix? or structural defects like poor foundations? roof spread? You can, of course, patch a crack. We use hazel spars sunk into both sides of the crack to help bond the two sides. Also the great thing about cob is that you can just break a wall down and re-puddle the mix on site. Traditionally cob was puddled in the farmyard by driving steers backwards and forwards across it – probably not vegan.
Another link: http://www.buildsomethingbeautiful.co.uk/page/aboutcob/
and here… http://www.devonearthbuilding.com/index.htm
November 12, 2012 at 6:49 pm
Got it, thanks much.
November 14, 2012 at 12:54 pm
Thank you leavergirl, this is a very refreshing site.
The following worries me:
“How do people make a living in DR? Well, there are those who live off their trust funds or pensions, a few run computer businesses, and others go off-farm for seasonal jobs… ”
I wonder if the system in place is resilient enough to survive dramatic changes in the industrial world that surrounds them. Cut off those sources of extracommunal energy/materials coming in from the surrounding industrial system and what happens to the community?
I’m not trying to be negative, just curious.
November 14, 2012 at 2:08 pm
Welcome, nntn! At present, they would not survive well at all. But at the neighboring community of Red Earth, at least one farm there is already well along its food sufficiency, and Sandhill supplies much of its food, exporting sorghum molasses to the outside world. Being surrounded by Mennonite farms also helps.
DR’s ambition seems to be to show to the outside world that sustainability need not be living in horrible deprivation; that it can be even luxurious (as the B&B is). They did not start with a vision of self-sufficiency.
November 15, 2012 at 2:10 am
A community should not aim to become self-sufficient by itself, isolated in the world. It should aim for being a part of the larger bio-region surrounding it. To develop local and regional bio-regions should be just as much a focus for an eco-village as an isolated focus on their own business. Then they will be nothing but a sect.
November 15, 2012 at 10:27 am
Thank you for the response Leavergirl. I suppose that very few if any communities can be completely self-reliant indefinitely, but it sounds like these groups have a much better chance of surviving “difficult times.” They have the right attitude and would be much better off psychologically and in terms of infrastructure than the industrial communities surrounding them – “austerity” is more of a way of life already, whereas neighboring, fully industrial communities might not survive the “inconvenience” .
“Being surrounded by Mennonite farms also helps” – that does sound like a good location. I think a lot will depend on the networks between local communities.
November 15, 2012 at 10:45 am
Øyvind Holmstad,
You make a good point, although I am not sure what exactly is a “sect” – and if that is a bad thing or not.
Your point, “To develop local and regional bio-regions…” brought to my mind the Anasazi and their inter-dependence. They were very resilient for a very long time.
I think “self-sufficiency” should be a goal, but it should have defined periods of time and real “needs” defined and prepared to be met (and “wants” defined as well, so people are prepared to give up the “wants” indefinitely).
For example, if a string of mostly-independent communities finds themselves fragmented and isolated because the industrial pigsty is having a nervous breakdown, how long could they survive independently?
Also, as per the brilliant and perfect title of this blog – “Leaving Babylon” – the more interactions and dependency you have on this current Industrial Accident-in-Progress, the more likely you turn into a pillar of salt.
November 15, 2012 at 1:30 pm
Leavergirl – thank you for the reply. I posted a response, but it appears to have not made it through yet – just so you know I am not being rude and ignoring you.
November 16, 2012 at 9:46 am
Øyvind, I did not get a sense that they have a vision to develop as a bio-region. Their larger vision is to be a light unto the heathens, so to speak, showing outsiders it can be done without abandoning civ’s comforts.
nntn: your comments were getting trapped in the spam folder, and I think it’s because of your handle… it’s the sort of long, gibberishy handle that spammers use. Sorry.
Unfortunately, the Menno farms in the area have been largely coopted by the system; the area is in corn and soybeans, though the presence of an old fashioned butcher testifies that subsistence farming still exists on the side. There is also a CAFO pig farm not too far away.
I think that forging larger alliances would serve the community well. As I understand, there are some tensions between DR and the Mennonites because of the… er… big difference in physical appearance (nudism and skimpy women’s clothes)… the Mennos are still quite old fashioned when it comes to modesty.
Thank you for your kind words! Good to have you in our little virtual community.
November 16, 2012 at 10:25 am
“Menno farms in the area have been largely coopted by the system;…”
It seems everywhere I turn I see, “coopted by the system”… nothing left untouched and unspoiled
The cultural “tensions” between the Mennonites and DR over physical appearance sounds like Kunstler’s “World Made By Hand” – where the New Faith people offer a day of “involuntary” shaving and hair-cutting” of the scruffy locals.
I think I should send my son to visit some of these “alternative” sites this summer. I like your description of the types/variety of people and lifestyle. It would disabuse him of his stereotypes and give him a brief “total immersion” experience that might help break the spell of the Industrial Pigsty.
Thank you leavergirl for your updates. I am re-reading this one and some others I missed. Need time to let it soak in.
And thank you for providing your particular forum for “our little virtual community”… sometimes I swear I live on the wrong side of the tracks in the twilight zone. It really helps to see real people and real experiences from the other-side of the tracks.
(oh, an apologies for the mixing of biblical metaphors – it was while fleeing Sodom and Gomorrah that Ruth turned to salt while … )
November 16, 2012 at 11:50 am
…while trying to put on Joseph’s coat of many colors for protection.
There will be another post on DR soon. More in depth on several issues there that particularly interested me.
The mention of a cult recently pinged a memory… what sort of thing would make an intentional community more of a cult? Which fateful turning?
December 2, 2012 at 6:04 pm
Thanks for writing this with all the details on DR. I look forward to reading your next installment on them. It sounds like it was a good experience for you over all. I’d be interested in learning what you would take from DR for your community building.
I’m commenting at this late date because I just got back from touring communities in Louisa, VA, and York, PA. I hope to get out a post on my experiences at Twin Oaks soon.
December 2, 2012 at 8:32 pm
MoonRaven, good to hear you are back! I’ll think about your question about takeaway lessons from DR. That may need to be a third post yet!
Looking forward to your accounts of Twin Oaks and Yorktowners.
December 3, 2012 at 9:51 am
Just off hand, I would say, a big takeaway lesson is figuring out shelter so it doesn’t cost and arm and a leg, and is readily available when new people come, ready to join. Both at DR and Possibility Alliance, there is no place to stay. People camp, or live in an open barn, or scramble to get outside jobs in the winter… It gets pretty miserable. And building your own takes like, a very long time, and is getting more and more expensive.
December 3, 2012 at 10:42 am
Absolutely. At Acorn, visitors, guests, associates, and even a member or two were all living in tents while they were trying to put up new buildings. A similar situation exists at Living Energy Farm. The trick is being able to anticipate the need–although having empty buildings waiting could be expensive and frustrating.
Thanks for thinking of this.
(Also, my post on Twin Oaks should be published tomorrow.)
December 8, 2012 at 11:58 am
Having read your latest DR post, I just re-read this and was struck by your description about DR as ‘one big laboratory’. Given how little we really know about what will work in the future and what won’t, really one of the biggest missions of intentional communities is as laboratories. It’s good to hear that DR has taken this on in many ways.
December 13, 2012 at 12:20 pm
[...] Despite all my images of the hippie communes in films and TV, life at Dancing Rabbit looked interesting. And DR clarifies that they are not really hippies or a commune. So it was cool to run across two Leaving Babylon articles written by a recent visitor who is looking for an alternative to modern society. Vera Bradova first describes DR in Extrovert Haven: [...]